R’ Zalman tz”l presented at the 92nd Street Y in New York City. I have not edited it in order to preserve the R’ Zalman’s unique way of telling. His voice shines through, yes?
Once there was a woman who was very poor. Her husband died and she didn’t have any children. Oy! She wanted to say kaddish. It was before egalitarianism, so she couldn’t go to say Kaddish in shul. She took in an extra load of laundry, and would do that work and take that money to the shammes, and ask the shammes to say a kaddish, and somehow she felt that this was right.
After a while she felt that there must be so many people who no one says kaddish for, so she worked still harder and got together another couple of coins and said to the shammes, “Will you say another kaddish for someone who has no one to say kaddish for him?” He agreed. One day she had to pay the rent, and she didn’t have money, and she was really in tsores.
She’s walking down the road a little bit, and she’s saying, “Dear G!d, I could use some help,” when a carriage comes by and a man, well dressed, noble looking, invites her to sit in the carriage, and says, “Why are you so troubles? What’s going on?” She tells him of her tsores, trouble, her travail, and he takes out a wechsel – a check, a note to the banker, saying, “Pay this woman ten thousand rubles.” She didn’t need that much, but she took the note and went to the bank and presented it to the teller. The teller says, “It’s a big note, something I can’t handle. I have to go to a higher up.” He sees the note, and he too says, “No, the president of the bank has to handle that: we can’t handle it.”
They usher this woman to the president of the bank, and he says, “Where did you get this note?” She looks around the room, and there were pictures, portraits of people and she points to one portrait and says, “This man – this is the man that gave me the note.” The banker nearly faints. It’s been eight years since his father, whose picture was there, has died, and he hasn’t said kaddish for his father. This woman, who had hired, with her hard work, someone to say kaddish for someone who needed the kaddish, helped that banker, and so she got helped in return.
